tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-298130322011-07-25T11:44:27.868-05:00We are a group committed to the issues and concerns that affect households headed by lesbians of color, single or coupled. Our goal is to create a community that empowers us as individuals and supports the needs of our families, specifically through organizing family-oriented social events.NCOLFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13246811840964690871noreply@blogger.comBlogger121100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29813032.post-1156346681313994912006-08-23T09:51:00.000-05:002006-08-23T12:25:20.230-05:00

Okay so I copied this from another blog site...But I liked it so here it is...Feel free to put it your info as well10 FAVORITESFavorite Color: pinkFavorite Food: chips and guacamoleFavorite Month: AprilFavorite Song: Insaitiable by PrinceFavorite Movie: Godfather Parts 1,2,3Favorite Sport: Football -Dem Boyz--CowboysFavorite Season: Fall/SpringFavorite Day of the week:FridayFavorite Ice Cream

NCOLFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13246811840964690871noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29813032.post-1156280905094554732006-08-22T15:45:00.000-05:002006-08-23T09:41:47.986-05:00

Alright,I really need some help on this one moms...School has started back or soon will start back and I guess as a step-parent I am excited as well looking forward to the sounds of kids getting off the bus, hearing them talk about who they saw today, seeing them in their new clothes.I also think there is a sadistic side to me that says I remember how much I hated going back to school after being

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Thai Neisha Thai-4445 Wisconsin Ave Nw, Washington, DC -(202) 966-7088Mie N Yu-3125 M St Nw, Washington, DC-202) 333-6122Bangkok Garden-4906 St. Elmo Ave., Bethesda, MD-(301) 951-0670 Japanese & AsianSushi Taro-1503 17th St Nw, Washington, DC -(202) 462-8999Woomi Garden-2423 Hickerson Dr, Wheaton, MD -(301) 933-0100Kobe Japanese Steak and Seafood-860 Capital Centre Blvd, Upper Marlboro, MD (301)

NCOLFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13246811840964690871noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29813032.post-1155565519369127862006-08-14T08:23:00.000-05:002006-08-14T09:25:22.766-05:00

Okay before I get started I should say I am Pro- HIP HOP. I love everything about the culture and what it represents. Everything from the music, to the need to put spinners on a mini-van. I think that what Hip-Hop has done for us as a society is to join us together on levels we probably would have never thought of before.First let me start off by saying telling what my definition of Hip Hop is.

NCOLFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13246811840964690871noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29813032.post-1152822365276283122006-07-13T15:14:00.000-05:002006-07-13T15:26:05.286-05:00

I swear to you I don't know how I got to be so lucky. Everyday in my life this week is a blessing ( i'm learning not to block them, to just accept them as they come).The love of a good woman is hard to find. You search the world over looking for love and damn if it doesn't turm up in the darnest places.My wife is exceptional. Not perfect by any means, but very exceptional. She allows my faults to

NCOLFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13246811840964690871noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29813032.post-1152453227081589762006-07-09T08:45:00.000-05:002006-07-09T08:56:28.340-05:00

My 9 year-old flip flops all of the time and it's really a pain in my butt. He tries to imply that we always do stuff with our gay friends as opposed to straight friends. The funny thing is, I would think he wouldn't care since most have kids(mainly boys) his age so he usually has a good time. One minute he's shaking his ass at the Pride parades and prominently displaying HRC stickers in his room

femmnoirehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16694506326191864640noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29813032.post-1151617949363021412006-06-29T16:44:00.000-05:002006-06-29T16:54:22.460-05:00

My wife picked my son up from camp. A boy asked my son if that was his mom and he said yes. Y did he say yes? Because we're married, she was standing there, and he didn't want to hurt her feelings if he said no and, because he didn't know what else to say. My first thought is--If he feels like she is his mom, ok, say yes. But, if he feels differently, say no and that should be it. We talked about

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What's this all about?Especially in the black lesbian community, it seems like you have to be one or the other and there is a finite separation between the two. Why? One distinctive benefit of being in lesbian relationships is the likelihood of gender equity. You don't have to live by a patriarchal system that values power over life, control over pleasure, and dominance over happiness (see

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So my friend Gloria and I were talking on the phone during our hour long commutes about our grown children who lack goals and live day to day. We both concluded that they were too spoiled and we should have let them suffer more when they were young.We compare ourselves to other people who let their kids run the streets, stay home alone at a young age for long periods of time, lived in the hood

femmnoirehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16694506326191864640noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29813032.post-1151095989186389372006-06-23T15:50:00.000-05:002006-06-23T15:53:09.196-05:00

Good afternoon ladies...With the summer now on us, I was hoping to plan a few events to get us together socially...Cookout? naw...Dinner party? Nope How about a card party?Gamble, drink, I take your money... you know stuff like thatInterested?Let's do it...

NCOLFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13246811840964690871noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29813032.post-1150630702969349222006-06-18T06:37:00.000-05:002006-06-18T06:38:22.976-05:00

Happy Father's Day to many mothers out there...Keep on doing what you're doing, you're great!!!!!!

NCOLFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13246811840964690871noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29813032.post-1150504917593068672006-06-16T19:28:00.000-05:002006-06-16T19:41:57.603-05:00

Today I'd like to talk about step-parenting .... the pros and cons.Although I don't have children of my own,the previous and current relationships have allowed me the opportunity to become a co- parent, step-parent to some pretty amazing kids.And as hard as I try to be the "NOT THE MAMA" type it seems that it always comes to a point where I start to feel like the 2nd mother.I find a joy in

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